About Arnout
From unfulfillment to purpose
From a boy who never quite fit in to a man with a clear mission.
This is the story of how the pieces of my life finally fell into place.
The search for myself
For years I searched for what others seemed to have so effortlessly — a clear path, a defined purpose.
Who am I? Where do I belong?
With an absent father and an overprotective mother, I lacked stability. The expectations of others didn’t help. It didn’t feel like a life I truly wanted.
I finished my studies reluctantly and became a prison officer in Brussels, a golden cage. In my free time, I escaped into partying, drinking and other distractions.
In 2018, I lost my best friend. That was the moment I woke up. Life is finite. Maybe it was time to make something of it.
In 2018, my best friend passed away. That was the moment I woke up. Life is finite. Maybe it was time to make something of it.
A new direction
In 2020, I met my wife. During the pandemic, I began to see life differently.
I discovered training, meditation and Buddhism. My mind became clearer. I grew fascinated by coaching and spirituality, but in a way that was tangible and real.
In 2021, I changed jobs, from prison officer to workplace supervisor in green maintenance. Not my dream job, but a step forward. I kept searching for what truly fulfilled me.
The turning point
In 2022, I became a father on the day I turned 33, a magical age for a new beginning.
At the start of 2024, I lost my mother to cancer. Two weeks later, my wife turned out to be pregnant with our daughter. Life and death, so close together.
In the summer of 2024, I left my job and became a freelancer. But even then, I felt trapped, working to survive instead of truly living.
And then came Human Design.
Everything fell into place.
I finally felt the peace and vitality I had been searching for all those years.
And then came Human Design. All the pieces of the puzzle fell into place. I finally felt the peace and vitality I had longed for all those years.
Man with a mission
Today, I help others discover their own Blueprint.
To stop living according to the expectations of others and start living from who they truly are.
Because if I’ve learned one thing, it’s that life is too short not to be fully yourself.